{"id":24003,"date":"2025-02-23T17:02:05","date_gmt":"2025-02-24T01:02:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.markrkelly.com\/Blog\/?p=24003"},"modified":"2025-03-15T11:26:19","modified_gmt":"2025-03-15T18:26:19","slug":"gaslighting-reality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.markrkelly.com\/Blog\/2025\/02\/23\/gaslighting-reality\/","title":{"rendered":"Gaslighting Reality"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Trump&#8217;s lying reaches new levels; and Musk&#8217;s DARVO strategy. (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender)<\/p>\n<div align=\"center\">&#8211; &#8211; &#8211;<\/div>\n<p align=\"center\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static01.nyt.com\/images\/2025\/02\/23\/multimedia\/23dc-assess1-cglm\/23dc-assess1-cglm-jumbo-v2.jpg?quality=75&amp;auto=webp\" width=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>NY Times, Peter Baker, 23 Feb 2025<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2025\/02\/23\/us\/politics\/trump-alternative-reality.html?unlocked_article_code=1.zU4.hwYQ.UsThmwAQeGuM&amp;smid=url-share\">In Trump\u2019s Alternate Reality, Lies and Distortions Drive Change<\/a>, subtitle &#8220;Condoms for Gaza? Ukraine started the war with Russia? The president\u2019s manipulations of the truth lay the groundwork for radical change.&#8217; [gift link]<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Hardly new news, but it seems to be getting worse.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>The United States sent $50 million in condoms to Hamas. Diversity programs caused a plane crash. China controls the Panama Canal. Ukraine started the war with Russia.<\/p>\n<p>Except, no. None of that is true. Not that it stops President Trump. In the first month since he returned to power, he has demonstrated once again a brazen willingness to advance distortions, conspiracy theories and outright lies to justify major policy decisions.<\/p>\n<p>Mr. Trump has long been unfettered by truth when it comes to boasting about his record and tearing down his enemies. But what were dubbed \u201calternative facts\u201d in his first term have quickly become a whole alternative reality in his second to lay the groundwork for radical change as he moves to aggressively reshape America and the world.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>And:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Taking his real-estate hucksterism and reality-show storytelling into politics, Mr. Trump has for years succeeded in selling his version of events. The world according to Mr. Trump is one where he is a master of every challenge and any failure is someone else\u2019s fault.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">He claimed to have built <a class=\"css-yywogo\" title=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2018\/07\/27\/business\/economy\/trump-gdp-fact-check.html\">the greatest economy in history<\/a> during his first term so many times that even some of his critics came to accept that it was better than it really was. He <a class=\"css-yywogo\" title=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2018\/07\/16\/world\/europe\/trump-putin-election-intelligence.html\">dismissed intelligence reports<\/a> that Russia intervened in the 2016 elections on his behalf so often that many supporters accepted his denial.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Most significantly, Mr. Trump has waged a four-year campaign to persuade Americans that he did not lose the 2020 election when in fact he did, <a class=\"css-yywogo\" title=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2023\/08\/17\/us\/politics\/trump-election-lies-fact-check.html\">making one false assertion of widespread fraud after another<\/a> that would all be debunked yet still leave most Republicans convinced it was stolen, according to polls.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Familiar authoritarian tactics. Say something, no matter how outrageous, often enough, and people will believe it&#8217;s true. It&#8217;s what everyone&#8217;s saying, everyone says.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cTrump is a highly skilled narrator and propagandist,\u201d said Ruth Ben-Ghiat, author of <a class=\"css-yywogo\" title=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2020\/11\/10\/books\/review\/strongmen-ruth-ben-ghiat.html\">\u201cStrongmen: Mussolini to the Present\u201d<\/a> and a historian at New York University who specializes in fascism and authoritarianism. \u201cActually he is one of the most skilled propagandists in history.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">Dr. Ben-Ghiat said what made Mr. Trump\u2019s \u201ceasily refutable lie\u201d about the 2020 election so remarkable was that he was \u201cworking not in a one-party state or authoritarian context with a controlled media, but in a totally open society with a free press.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-at9mc1 evys1bk0\">But she and other scholars said some of Mr. Trump\u2019s themes resemble those seen in authoritarian states. \u201cThe kind of propaganda and disinformation that we see now is not particularly new and not dependent on the internet,\u201d said Benjamin Carter Hett, a historian of World War II at Hunter College. \u201cExactly the same kind of thing happened in the very diverse and lively German press of the 1920s and 1930s.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>With examples of how Trump or his staff misunderstands or distorts something, and then not only clings to the lie or misrepresentation (remember: they never apologize, never explain), but forces everyone under him to endorse the story too.<\/p>\n<p>Again, an old story. My own thought along these matters is how many MAGA Trump fans are also religiously devout, and how belief in religious fables, especially from early childhood, simply undermines the ability to think rationally. You are taught from an early age to accept certain stories as absolute truths, not to be questioned, no matter how implausible in terms of the ways the world apparently works today, no matter how obviously such stories make sense in historical and psychological terms (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.markrkelly.com\/Blog\/2025\/02\/14\/richard-dawkins-the-magic-of-reality\/\">Dawkins<\/a> addresses this in his last chapter.) So, if you believe those stories, you&#8217;ll believe anything, including all the stories Trump tells you, in spite of all the objective and circumstantial evidence against them. (And thinking long term, this could be what cripples the human species into not dealing with existential crises, and by extension, an explanation of the Fermi paradox. Intelligence has its limits, and is burdened and undercut by tribal thinking.)<\/p>\n<p>\\\\<\/p>\n<p>Something similar is going on here, in the way a simplistic narrative, or psychological strategy, is <span data-huuid=\"18139216193996484747\">blanketly<\/span> applied to diverse real world situations. And people.<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/compote.slate.com\/images\/c8d665f7-9a87-446e-b4b4-6250639d51d5.jpeg?crop=1560%2C1040%2Cx0%2Cy0&amp;width=1280\" width=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Slate, Denise Cana, 21 Feb 2025<\/strong>: <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/news-and-politics\/2025\/02\/elon-musk-doge-psychology-government-workers.html\">I\u2019ve Pinpointed the Psychological Phenomenon at Play in Every Elon Musk Move<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"10\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm7f3kjmx004o5gm2rjnt3nm7@published\">Last Friday, tens of thousands of public servants were fired.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"42\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm7f3kmrq000o3b72d8ygk2cq@published\">The nation lost the dedication and service of these individuals, their communities have lost the security of a reliably employed core of families needing services, and the federal workers and their families have been catapulted into uncertainty, many into serious financial turmoil.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"32\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm7f3kmuo000p3b72rb6ijnxy@published\">The mass terminations, led by the Department of Government Efficiency, were likely illegal. They were certainly cruel. And they clearly had <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/news-and-politics\/2025\/02\/elon-musk-doge-purge-cancer-nuclear-weapons.html\">nothing to do<\/a> with the \u201cperformance\u201d of the individuals let go.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"88\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm7f3kmzi000q3b72z5x2rrko@published\">Meanwhile, the daily assault on federal workers\u2019 credibility, professionalism, and patriotism continues. We\u2019re \u201ccrooks\u201d who have \u201cforgotten\u201d our oaths to the country and the Constitution. We\u2019re told we cannot share research results, investigate public health threats, start new projects, conclude old projects, continue to work on projects initiated under the previous administration (or even projects initiated during the administration before the previous one). We\u2019re directed to work more efficiently with little direction as to what is allowed and what will be deemed insubordination by paranoid agency leadership teams.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>And here&#8217;s the strategy.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Those with the misfortune of having seen cycles of abuse recognize the administration\u2019s framework for governance by its acronym from psychology,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/DARVO\">DARVO<\/a>: Deny, attack, reverse victim and offender.<\/p>\n<p>First: Deny. Any and all claims of wrongdoing are derided as false. They\u2019re baseless lies, slander, misinformation.<\/p>\n<p>Next: Attack. The accuser is cast as the enemy. The people pointing out missteps and misconduct? They\u2019re not trustworthy, they aren\u2019t properly virtuous, they\u2019re too stupid to understand the situation, or they\u2019re so gullible they\u2019ll believe anything.<\/p>\n<p>Finally: Reverse the positions of victim and offender.<\/p>\n<p>DARVO is the pathology of a narcissistic abuser. It\u2019s a small-minded and petty ploy, but it\u2019s a dangerous one. And it is the go-to move at every level of this administration.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Examples:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Presented with mounting evidence of and growing public concern for institutionalized racism, the administration says,\u00a0<em>No, <\/em>you\u2019re<em>\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.federalregister.gov\/documents\/2025\/01\/31\/2025-02097\/ending-illegal-discrimination-and-restoring-merit-based-opportunity\"><em>the racist<\/em><\/a><em>!<\/em> And then it sets about dismantling diversity, equity, and inclusion programs with a doth-protest-too-much fury.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"26\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm7f3knqv000y3b7298k0s8p6@published\">Called out by reporters for demonstrably spreading misinformation and baseless conspiracy theories, the administration insists,\u00a0<em>No, <\/em>you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/www.axios.com\/2025\/02\/17\/trump-ap-gulf-america-mexico\"><em>spreading misinformation<\/em><\/a>. Or, an oldie but a goodie:\u00a0<em>No<\/em>,\u00a0you\u2019re<em>\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.axios.com\/2025\/02\/17\/trump-ap-gulf-america-mexico\"><em>selling fake news<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;<br \/>\nThese are the adult tantrums of \u201cI know you are, but what am I?\u201d bullies, vacuous but vicious. And they have the desired effect of confusing the story, forcing onlookers to choose a side based on whom they trust rather than the evidence.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Beware simplistic narratives, especially those that target the opponents of the narrative-tellers. It&#8217;s alarming how large the proportion of the population is that continues to fall for these.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Trump&#8217;s lying reaches new levels; and Musk&#8217;s DARVO strategy. (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; NY Times, Peter Baker, 23 Feb 2025: In Trump\u2019s Alternate Reality, Lies and Distortions Drive Change, subtitle &#8220;Condoms for Gaza? 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